When did you find out you were pregnant?
We found out on September 12, 2010 at like 6 in the morning.
Is this your first, second, etc, child?
This will be Zeke and I's second child!!!!! We're so excited! They will be 2 years and 4 months apart.
Was this a surprise or were you planning?
This baby and Tucker were both planned! We started trying in the middle of July and got pregnant the beginning of August!!
How did you tell your partner?
We were talking about when to take a test on Friday..we agreed that I would take one on Sunday morning..first thing. I peed on the stick... I didn't want to get my hopes up so I kept telling myself that it was going to be negative. I was INCREDIBLY THRILLED when I look a minute later and it already said PREGNANT! Even though it was Zeke's morning to sleep in, I ran in to show him. He was so excited that he couldn't even go back to sleep!
How did you tell your friends and family?
My parents knew before we even did!! My dad has this weird pregnancy sense..He knew before we did that I was pregnant with Tucker too! We were going to tell them in person the weekend after we found out but on Monday..they called and asked "So is there another little one on the way!?" As for the rest of the family and friends..our friend Katy bought Tucker a shirt that said "I'm going to be the big brother!!" We dressed him in it on Thanksgiving and let everyone read his shirt. Everyone seemed thrilled with the news!
Are the Grandparents excited?
Gramma and Grampa Kehoe definitely are!! Gramma Kehoe is already talking about things to buy and all that! The others opt not to be a big part of our lives so their excitement was pretty limited..
Was there anyone that wasn’t excited?
My in-laws didn't seem to thrilled, which we expected. And my grandmother said I was stupid to get knocked up agian..but we expected that too..she is crazy!! haha
What is your due date?
Baby is due on May 22, 2011!!
How far along are you now?
November 30, 2010, I am 15 weeks 3 days today.
Are you having a boy or girl?
We have no idea yet!! We honestly don't care as long as the baby is healthy!! A boy would be easier since I saved EVERYTHING from Tucker, but having one of each would definitely be a blessing!!
Will they be multiples in this pregnancy?
Not that we know of!!
Do you have any nick names for the little one as of now?
We just call it #2 until we find out the sex. We already have names picked out :)
Have you had any sickness or complications since you have been pregnant?
No complications thank God!! Morning sickness...oh man, yes! This pregnancy has been much harder than Tucker's!! Morning sickness pretty badly and MAJOR fatigue as well. But since I just entered the second trimester, I'm hoping it will soon ease up!!
How much Caffeine do you consume?
NONE! I drank NONE with Tucker and when we started trying for #2, I quit drinking it cold turkey again! I have never liked soda so that was never an issue. I LOVE my coffee though and I like my sweet tea as well!! It has not been an issue at all tho! I LOVE LOVE LOVE water!
Are you a smoker?
NO!! I never will be either. I refuse to let my children be exposed to second hand smoke as well..and that includes while I'm pregnant!!
Do you still drink?
No!! I have never really liked drinking so I have no problem not drinking!!
How often do you exercise?
If you are talking about going to the gym or doing an actual workout..never. But I do have an almost 2 year old son..so I think I get plenty of excerise!! He keeps me busy chasing him! Plus we go on a walk almost daily, go to the park a TON and I get plenty of weight lifting just carrying him and picking him up :)
Have any cravings since you have been pregnant?
Not really. With Tucker I HAD to have a few snickers bars a day. This time, chocolate makes me sick!! And I like that!! As for cravings..no, not really. I have seen someone eating chinese and want some too but not like other women that just sit there and drool over gross things :)
Have you experienced a lot or weird dreams?
Yes. I'll leave it at that haha
How are your boobs?
SORE! They are finally starting to stop being sore! BIGGER!! Ask the hubby..he will tell you..ha!
Are you showing yet?
I've got the pooch!! But just to be honest..unless you know me, you might just mistake that preggo pooch for a little bit of leftover baby weight from Tucker hahaha
Gained any weight?
Only 3 pounds so far!! I am eating VERY healthy and get plenty of excerise with a little one around too. With Tucker, I gained 69 pounds..that is NOT happening this time! I will however..gain as much weight as needed for a healthy baaaabbby!
Is the baby kicking yet?
I'm pretty positive that I've felt a few kicks/squirms!! But not consistantly or big kicks yet.
How is your sex life since you have become pregnant?
Mom, quit reading now! haha. umm What sex life is a better question? :)
Do you want a boy or a girl?
I answered this once already I think..but we don't care as long as its healthy!! Having a little girl (one of each) would be amazing!! We would definitely love that! But another little boy would be just as amazing and a whole different experience. We're just thrilled that he/she is healthy and doing well at this point! However, we will find out ASAP!!
Do you plan on circumcision if you have a boy?
We had our first son circumsized and will again if this one is a boy!! I can understand for some people its a cultural thing, but its just a health issue to us..and we want our boy(s) to be healthy always :)
Do you plan on Breastfeeding or bottle feeding?
Definitely breastfeeding!! I tried it with Tucker and didn't have the support/knowledge that I needed. I feel confident this time and much more prepared. Plus this doctors office fully supports it and has a 24/7 on call lactation consultant. Definitely going to breastfeed this one!! However, Tucker has bottle fed after a week and he is perfect. I have nothing against bottle babies!! Don't lecture me on the benefits of breastfeeding over formula! :)
Do you plan on using Regular diapers or cloth diapers?
Definitely regular disposable diapers!! I am all for saving money and being green..but I am NOT willing to deal with more poop than I have to! I'm not about to handle poop and wash it!! We are definitely a disposable diaper family!! However, I definitely understand the reason behind cloth diapering and support those who do it. I can NOT stand those mothers that judge me for it. Disposables are 100% just as safe and effective as cloth..so don't even try to give me a lecture on it :)
As of now what is your birth plan? C-section? All Natural? Vaginal with epidural? At home? Other?
ALLLLLLL NATURAL!!! I had Tucker ALL NATURAL..no pain meds, no help, just natural. But I do understand that things don't always go according to plan...so I am keeping an open mind. I do NOT ever want a c-section, but if it came down to that..I would do it. I'm not opposed to pain meds..if I need them, I WILL get them. But if it is at all possible, I want this birth to be 100% all natural!!
Have you visited your OB/GYN or Midwife yet? How do you feel about the doctor or Midwife?
We have gone three times now. The practice we picked (after a ton of research and questioning..) has 5 midwives and 5 OBs. Unless complications arise (pray that none do!), we are seeing midwives instead of OBs. I loved my OB with Tucker and have NO complaints there but I like the idea behind a midwife much better!! Plus this office supports no inducement (unless necessary!), as natural as possible and breastfeeding. Wait, I think the next question goes more into why we picked them...Find out the sex December 20 when we go next!!!!!!
What are the requirements you want/wanted from your doctor?
Answer my concerns and to be there if I have a problem! Plus be available 24/7 in case of emergency. We also picked them because they support no inducing (unless necessary), natural laboring (birthing balls, limited monitoring, movement, lamaze, music, baths, etc..), breastfeeding and natural birth (no pain meds, etc). Plus they deliver at the Women's Hospital of Greensboro which is AWESOME! They have HIGH recommendations and great reviews!
Do you know what hospital you will give birth at?
Yes, I will be giving birth at The Women's Hospital of Greensboro. We had such an amazing experience at Park Ridge Hospital with Tucker that we really looked into where we wanted to deliver and how this time.
Who is going to be in the delivery room?
Only Zeke!! Unless no one can make it here in time, then it will be Zeke and Tucker :)
Do you have any names picked out as of now?
YES! We are set in stone on them too.. If it is a girl, her name will be Rylie Grace. If its a boy, his name will be Maddox Cooper!
What do you plan on doing with the nursery?
The kids are going to share a room! At least for a year or two. The baby will be in our room for the first 6 or so months anyway.
Things you have bought the baby.
We haven't bought anything yet. Thanks to Dora and Dave, we are having a crib and high chair given to us!! (They are amazing!) We are planning on using all of Tucker's stuff. Like the bouncer, the walker, etc.. The only things we'll need to buy are 2-3 big things, some little stuff and if its a girl, clothes. Many thanks to my wonderful parents..they have bought SO MUCH STUFF for Tucker!!!!!!!
Is there anything you fear about carrying or delivering the baby?
Well there are always fears!! Nothing too out of the ordinary though!! We have been through a miscarraige before so in the beginning that was on our minds a lot. But now we're safely into the second trimester and baby is doing well! While we will never forget that, its no longer a major threat! As far as everything else goes..there is always the possibilty that something can go wrong, so the fear never leaves. And for delivery..I really want to have another all natural labor and delivery. I am terrified of a c-section and all that. All natural, please! We just continue to pray about it!
Your biggest problems since you have been pregnant?
Fatigue. Its starting to die down some tho, so I can't really complain!!
How are your mood swings?
Honestly, I don't think I have had many at all. Zeke might not agree with that, but there have been no fights or anything, so I think I'm good in the mood swing category!
After the baby is born do you plan on going back to work? If so, how long is your maternity leave?
I am a full time stay at home mommy already, so yes..I will be back at work full time!! And I LOVE my job :) (and my hubby for making it possible!!)
Are you reading any pregnancy/ baby books?
I have the "What to Expect When You're Expecting" book..but honestly, I read more online than I do in pregnancy books. I have several sites that I really like and I like being able to quickly google any question that I have!
Do you believe in the saying “Eating for two”?
No..I do eat more than normal. I am hungry more than normal. But that doesn't mean I need to eat 2 or 3 cheeseburgers instead of just one...I just eat a little bit more often and its all good!
We can't wait until May!! We're so excited!!!
